Does it ever feel like you're waking up next to a stranger?
The quirks that once made your partner unique now drive you crazy.
The traits that attracted you are starting to push you away.

Over time, those little differences can start to feel like insurmountable walls between you and the person you love.

But it doesn’t have to be this way!

We understand how frustrating it is when you feel disconnected, even though you're trying your best to make things work.
Miscommunication isn’t just frustrating—it creates distance, resentment, and a lack of intimacy. You want to reconnect, but sometimes it feels like you’re speaking entirely different languages.

That’s where the Life Languages™ Communication IQ course comes in.

This self-paced video course will equip you with practical tools to bridge that communication gap.
You’ll discover how your partner processes not just what you say, but the things you do. Learn to navigate conflict in a way that deepens your connection, instead of driving you further apart.

Don’t wait until it’s too late to make things right. Upgrade your relationship NOW and create a bond built on mutual understanding, empathy, and love.

Benefits:

Incorporating the principles contained in this course into your relationship has many benefits, here are just a few.

  • Transform Communication: Gain a deeper understanding of how your partner interprets your words and actions, helping you communicate more effectively and avoid misunderstandings.

  • Resolve Conflicts Gracefully: Learn practical strategies to tackle conflicts head-on, turning arguments into opportunities for growth and deeper connection.

  • Strengthen Emotional Intimacy: Reignite the emotional bond with your partner by fostering greater empathy, trust, and mutual understanding.

  • Self-Paced Learning: Enjoy the flexibility of a self-paced video course that fits into your schedule, allowing you to grow your relationship on your own terms.

  • Please note: to get the maximum benefit from the course, you will need a Kendal Life Languages Personal Profile for each participant. These are included in the price of the course, details and instructions are provided after purchase.

FAQ

- the 'HELP' section!

  • So what is Life Languages™?

    We get asked this a lot 😫! Love Languages is not the same, although it is a good tool. Life Languages™ is all about communication 'styles'. It is a tool that simply helps us to understand, motivate and lead ourselves and others.

  • What is the 'profile'?

    The Life Languages™ Profile is a diagnostic tool produced by completing a comprehensive survey that indicates, among other metrics, your language preferences. It is a highly accurate tool and you will receive a 20+ page report based on your results. That profile forms the basis of the Life Languages™ Communication IQ System. The purchase price of this course includes 2 Personal Profiles. Links and instructions on how to take the profile will be sent by email. Should you so desire, you can upgrade your profile at an additional cost but the Personal Profile is sufficient for the purposes of this course.

  • What is the purpose of the course?

    This course is designed to give you a comprehensive understanding of each of the 7 Life Languages™. Having that understanding will enable you to recognise how and why you process all incoming and outgoing communication the way each of you do. Set out in short lessons, the course takes you through the specific keys to success for each language and also takes a look at the negative, distressed behaviour specific to each language. As you work through this course together, you will have many 'light bulb moments', leading to deeper understanding and connection.

  • How long do we have to complete the course?

    The course is completely self paced, meaning you can do it over an evening or a month or longer. Once enrolled, you will have unlimited access to the course and will be able to repeat lessons as well, should you need to.

  • Are there written course notes?

    There are no specific course notes. We didn't want to make it too easy for you! There is value in taking notes yourself and we have provided a comprehensive workbook with this in mind.

  • What can I expect from doing the course?

    That's a great question and without a good answer, why spend your money! There are many benefits, including: 1. Greater self awareness - understand why you think, feel and act the way you do. 2. Deeper connections with your significant other and those around you. Understanding the different communication styles will help you connect in a completely new way. You will learn to adapt your communication to the 'language' you are hearing, which produces greater connection. 3. Resolve conflict. When you know the language a person is 'speaking', you will know the specific 'keys to success' for that language and when applied, will bring resolution to conflict. You will know how to communicate in a way that makes the other person feel seen, heard and understood. 4. Help navigate distress. When we experience negative behaviour, instead of it being something that pushes us away, we now see it as a way to help, intervening to bring that person back out into positive territory. Most couples avoid conflict OR conflict becomes a battle ground where one is the winner and the other the loser. It doesn't have to be that way. Understanding conflict within the context of Life Languages™ and applying the principles provides the possibility of a win/win outcome. Most people wait until their relationship is almost over before looking for help. This course has saved marriages and the cost of the course is minimal compared to the cost of a broken relationship. And even if your relationship is good, there is always room for improvement, leading to greater fulfilment.

  • How involved does my partner need to be? Do we need to watch the course together?

    It is possible for only one of you to do the course but its impact will be limited. As the saying goes 'it takes 2 to tango!' Additionally, there are some exercises and discussion topics included that require mutual participation. In conclusion, we strongly encourage couples to got through the course together and engage with the process of transformation.

What are people saying?

The 'restoration of my marriage' and other success stories.

The restoration of my marriage - Life Languages has been a fantastic tool in understanding how I react and respond to other people, it has brought many lightbulb moments where I have become more self aware. The awareness of reactions and emotions in me and other people has increased my confidence in dealing with conflict. The outcome has been the restoration of my marriage and being more able to deal with problems at home and work effectively ”

Matt R.

“This has been such a powerful tool in understanding my kids communication style, their personality, how I can better connect and also how I can be more patient in areas I want them to develop in. Having you and your kids take Life Languages™ is worth a thousand books on psychology and its such a good move in the direction of healthy family communication. It was worth every penny for me.

Dan Romer

“Excellent material, superbly delivered by Genivo. This has the potential to revolutionise your marriage, your workplace, pretty much anything!

Simon Guillebaud - GLO

Course Outline

(What you can expect.)

    1. Essential steps before you begin........

    2. Your Life Languages™ Foundations Workbook

    3. Welcome to the course

    1. Course Introduction

      FREE PREVIEW
    2. Introduction to Life Languages™

    3. Your Kendal Life Languages™ Profile

    1. Mover™ Life Language

    2. Doer™ Life Language

    3. Let's see what you can remember about the Kinetic Languages.

    1. The Influencer Life Language™

    2. The Responder Life Language™

    3. What can you remember about the Emotive Languages?

    1. The Shaper™ Language

    2. The Producer™ Language

    3. The Contemplator™ Language

    4. What have you learned about the Cognitive Languages?

    1. Life Languages™ and sex!

    2. Part 1 Conclusion

About this course

  • £299.99
  • 31 lessons
  • 3.5 hours of video content
  • 2 Life Languages™ Profiles included

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Instructor(s)

James Porter

Director / Facilitator

Husband to one gorgeous woman for over 30 years, father to 3 amazing kids. Lived in 3 different continents and was privileged to occupied myself as a professional drummer, sound engineer, part of senior leadership teams of various organisations for over 20 years and now a coach and consultant utilising the incredible Life Languages™ Communication IQ system that has changed my life and our marriage.
Jeanine and I trained as Certified Life Languages™ Coaches back in 2019 after experiencing the transformational power of the tool. I had experienced Myers-Briggs, Strength Finders and DISC, all of which were good and useful personality profiles but none of them were as transformational as Life Languages™. We saw immediate benefits not just in our marriage but our parenting too and we loved how it doesn't put people into a box.

As a coach, my job is to partner with clients and co-create their future selves with them, to help them unravel old systems of beliefs and mindsets, helping them build positive, constructive ways of living. The way we speak to ourselves and others, forms the basis of that transformation. It's a privilege to be able to serve people in their journey of discovering how incredible they are as human beings with limitless potential inside them.

Invest in your most important relationship TODAY...

And reap the benefits for the rest of your lives.

Reviews

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Sebastian Kenelm

Life languages offers profound guidance in enhancing communication. The videos portray James's compassionate demeanor, coupled with his humility and extensive knowledge of communication. It has significantly influenced my approach to interpersonal...

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Life languages offers profound guidance in enhancing communication. The videos portray James's compassionate demeanor, coupled with his humility and extensive knowledge of communication. It has significantly influenced my approach to interpersonal interactions, both in professional settings and personal relationships. From the way the course is presented, my personal view of communication has now evolved to that of an art form, and it has had a profound impact on every area of life. The video content, was very powerful and was great to be able to go through at your own pace, this is definitely the best value for your money! I wholeheartedly recommend this course, it will change your life.

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